Having a bad night.....received a couple calls that I really wish I didnt get...I feel like I've fallen into a very black area and Im not sure how to handle it....
How the hell do you talk to someone who's stubborn and so bent on self destruction? Someone that WONT tell you where she's at because, as she put it, she "doesnt want to be saved"??
The first call (3:48pm for 45 minutes)....after much melt down and asking for an explanation as to why it was all happening to her....was signed off as "I'll talk to you later"
The second call was from her friend (@6:07pm for about 30 minutes), worried because she hadnt arrived home tonight, asking me to call and talk some sense into her. And now, I suspect the first call was just a goodbye because I keep calling to check on her and she's not picking up.......
EDIT:10:55pm: She called about 8:15pm or so and is headed to Georgia. Not sure why she's headed that way because of the falling out she had with her mom and sister...said she's not sure where she's headed, that she may end up sleeping on the beach....
21 comments:
One word --- Pray
Yes, I agree with Janis. Pray. Pray for your friend and for her safety. I hope you hear from her soon, Styxie. *hugs*
I totally agree with Janis. Pray. That's my go-to fail safe answer.
Hugs
Hugs ya tight - sometimes... it is just a matter of time.
A time away - and a time to get together again.
Oh man! Yes, pray!!! And, if you really feel this is serious, call the police. They are trained for this and will follow up. I hope nothing drastic happens. Hugs from me too!
Hugs from me, too. Hang in there.
Oh my gosh, I hope she ok. Keep us posted.
Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you.
Hope things are a bit brighter when you wake up today. *Hugs*
Sends a prayer up to heaven to help Styxie's friend through her rough spot and to help Styxie have the words to make it better for her friend. *hugsss*
((((Styx)))) you have an inner strength you probably dont even know is there, so now is the time for it to come out.......
Dont think the worst, maybe your friend just needs 'HER TIME' to sort out things in her head, and getting away from it all might be just what she needs...... I hope so, I hope she stays safe.....
The number of times Ive just wanted up to and drive off, cos I didnt think I could do this (raise 4 sons completely alone)... the times I wish I had the guts to drive away to get me head together....
Loving thoughts to you and also to your friend.....
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*Grabbing me torch and shining it at you so its not so dark there*
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Oh dear God. My heart hurt for you as I read this post. I will light a candle for your friend and another one for you, Styxie. I hope your friend finds her way back home. Hugsss to you, dear.
*Hugs* Hope things turn out OK in the end. As others have already said, maybe she just needs some space and nothing bad will come of it? Just hold on to that thought!
(((HUGS))) Other than prayers there is not much you can do for someone hell-bent on self-destructing. It's hard to watch, but they choose to walk that path.
I'm sorry you've hit this rough patch. You're such a good friend!
oh dear! I hope she is okay!
You sound very stressed - I really hope this resolves itself soon.
There doesn't sound like there is much you can do right now. Just keep reassuring yourself, and being there for her.
She'll be okay in the end.
I hope she's ok and finds her way back soon. My thoughts are with you, her and her family.
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